
Great post Simon
Brings to mind a 'model' I share with managers and leaders I call 'Get Over Yourself', meaning get over your need to be admired, agreed with, omnipotent, allways right - whatever it is that's stopping the team you lead being able to communicate with openess and transparancy. Not easy, as you say, but well worth the effort
Best wishes
Joan
www.10mmt.com
Hi Joan
Thanks for your comment - and I love the directness of your "get over yourself" approach! At a push, I'd say that most leaders who can't "get over themselves" are actually hiding something - either something 'emotional' (the need to feel impressive, to be loved, deep-seated insecurity and so on - attitude issues); or something 'practical' (they aren't actually capable - lack of knowledge or skills - of performing their role well, and so have to put on a front).
The other challenge, which comes across in Jim Collin's book 'Good to Great' is the need to balance between being a leader who shows great grit, determination and a passionate desire to get something done, with the willingness, ability and humility to listen and acknowledge that you might not be right! A tough one...
Take a look at www.trainingreality.co.uk/blog/being-flexible-or-being-determined.php if you get a second; it's the start of a series on the different characteristics of people being "right all the time" through to completely flexible, bend-to-the-will-of-others people.
That series of articles is still being developed: the two articles straight afterwards develop the topic, and there are twp more to come...watch this space!
Thanks again Joan.
Simon.